Go From Break Up to Make Up

Get my Ex back - How to Get Back the Love of Your Life

1. "Be yourself", that was the reason why your ex was attracted to you in the first place. Go out with friends or develop new hobbies. This will give you a chance to learn to develop a self-realization of who you are… Interaction with other people will give you & you're ex a comparative base.



2. "Be strong". Don't be overly nice to him or keep telling him how much you love him. Don't make yourself look desperate to get him back. Don't call, stalk, spy, beg, plead, promise, force yourself on your ex or even try to get in touch with his friends or relatives. These will be the biggest mistakes you can make and it will only make him run away. Do not exhibit your grief in public. Avoid any contact with your ex and you may stand a better and quicker chance of winning back your love.



3. Remember that your ex left because he was not satisfied with some issue in your relationship so you've got to be the listener and sympathizer. Admit your faults and improve yourself and the qualities in you. Show the improvement.



4. Buy yourself time by making a slow and steady move towards your approach to him. Use the time to think about your relationship. Make sure that you are prepared mentally. If it's been a long time since you've seen your ex then make yourself an accidental entry and start a conversation. Look good, be nice to him but don't overdo it. When he's ready to leave let him go and continue being aloof with him.



5. Highlight your good points for all to see especially for him to know what he is missing. Your body language says a lot about the way you are feeling inside. If you keep your head down and slump your shoulders it makes you look like someone looking for sympathy. You are trying to attract him to you by making him regret the he ever left. So a sulky or sad look will definitely won't work in favor of you.